Peas in a pod, can see how that could be scary if you had serious problems with yourself.

Now me, despite appearances, I don't really have much in the way of problems with myself. Uncomfortably self-conscious, sure, but don't really go in for the insecurity & self-loathing, really dislike being so nervous all the time, but I don't hate myself for it any more than I'd hate myself for having a shriveled limb. It's a lot like having a shriveled limb actually, makes things awkward, get funny looks.

Wish you weren't so down on yourself & me, we're both pretty OK, really rather surprisingly so. Curious, clever & sweet. Top quality primates, slight irregularities.